The Six Rules

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

1) "Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."

2) "You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."

3) "Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."

what this means is that you suppose is that have a conversation to a friend but keep it going. you don't suppose to be only talking about yourse;f but you have to ask her questions about herself because you don't want to get her bored about you. also your friend has to ask you questions about yourself not only about herself. 

Rule 2: Smile

1) "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."

2) "You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."

3) "It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."

what this is trying to say is that you need to spread happiness towards the people. sometimes you might be in a bad mood but you still have to smile at the people that hasn't gave you a reason why to be mean towards them. their some people that will love for someone to give them a genuatley smile. their is people that don't have parents and are sad because they don't have soemone for them to make them smile or make them feel loved. so even if you force a smile atleast make it seem like you mean it because sometimes get bothered when you don't mean to smile at them.

Rule 3: Remember names

1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."

2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."

what this means is that you need to listen to people when their talking to you. mostly if the person that is talking to is a really sweet person. you don't wnat to make other people feel bad because they think youre ignoring them.  if you forget about something they told you or they forget the persons name their going to feel like you never wanted to talk to them and they wont forget that. so eveerytime they talk to you their going to have that in mind. so everytime you meet someone you need ask for their name and tryto keep it in your head. if for any reason you forget then you kindly have to ask them not just say it like nothing because you might hurt their feelings.

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

" If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener." 

"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems. 

what this means is that you need to listen to the person youre talking to because then they would'nt like for you to not listen to them. when you talk to someone you need to ask them questions about them. the thing you dont need to do is just to talk about yourself because they will get annoyed by you. so you need ask them how they been and questions like that the same to them they need to ask you questions. you don't nesserarly need to ask them questions but you need to keep a conversation about things. however once in a while you could talk about yourself but not always because that will make the person youre talking to not like you. their is also people that don't like to listen to peoples stories but they keep talking about theirs like it concerns you. i feel like thats really rude for the fact that you just want to be everything about you and that's not how it has to be. 

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.

"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."

what this means is that you suppose to talk to guys about things they like or that their interested in. maybe throught the time you could both relate. you might also want to ask him about the things the he treasures the most. and he might trust you later on and keep telling you what he treasure the most later on. you suppose to talk about them not just yourself. because you don't want to get him annoyed.

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.

"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

what this quote is trying to say is that you should always make other people smile no matter what. you making other people smile is a good feeling for others it works magic. when you make other peole feel good is bc you mean it you always have to be kind about it. people will appreciate you being kind to them. theirs people out there that are having a bad day and you could make it bright by you telling them something nice that will make their day 10 times better. their is also people that have a low selfesteem and you could probably make it better by complementing them.

Reflection: Write an overall final reflection in this post regarding the "Six  Ways to Make People Like You".  Include your deepest thoughts and feelings. Write what you commit to do to apply the Six Rules.

what i learned in these 6 rules is to learn how to be kind to others for them to like you because theirs alot of people that dislike people that are rude towards them. i also learned how to communicate to others. it also taught me how to approach people. it also taught me how to communicate more with my friends in a better way. forexample ask them how they been and how they feel and not just make it about me. but overall these 6 rules have taught me so much.